This is the first of a series of articles detailing Date Night ideas. Use these as a way of treating her. That is the preferred use, but you can also use them to impress her. The former is more effective because if you give her a reason for you treating her, she’ll continue to give you more reasons to treat her.
1. Coconut Oil Massage
Have her lie down naked back facing up and rub her down with virgin coconut oil. It feels soothing on the skin and makes the massage feel amazing. Make the massage last at least 40 mins.
Coconut oil is great for handjobs, but I don’t recommend fingering a girl with it – might cause PH imbalance inside. If you want to finger at the end, wash your hands and get some lube. Believe me she’ll be dripping.
2. Pizza and Wine by the Poolside
A lot of you live in a condominium with a pool or have access to one. Tell her you’re going to pick her up on what day what time, and tell her to prepare a bikini or swimwear. Don’t answer any questions about where you’re going.
Lead her to the pool and unpack the treats. Watch her instagram the whole thing. She’ll love that online validation.
3. Mystery Safe Box
This one is a bit explicit. Works best after you’ve had sex at least 3 or 4 times on previous occasions.
You’ll need:
- Large Portable Safe Box (key or combination)
- Earphones/Headphones
- Feather
- Handcuffs
- Blindfold (sleeping mask also works)
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Tell her to set aside some free time of your choosing and tell her you’re planning a whole night. Tell her to dress up and let you handle everything. Just be ready at what time. Pick a decent place for dinner (even places like Burgerlab is ok) just make sure the food is good.
If you’re picking her up in a car, have the box on your lap with the other items inside it. If she asks what it is, just say it’s nothing.
At the dinner put the box on the table and say nothing about it. Continue with your meal. It’ll drive her crazy. Make sure it’s locked. Go to the toilet and leave the box there. It’s torture.
Bring her home and have her sit on your bed. Put the box on the bed. Talk to her about how lovely she was at dinner. Talk to her about her outfit, and how you appreciated her effort. Stall. Look at the box time to time. She’ll beg you soon enough. When you’re satisfied, open the box for her. She’ll be shocked. She might not want to go through with it.
Tell her it’s ok, you’ll go slow and take it one step at a time. Blindfold first. Most of the time they’ll oblige to the blindfold. Get the blindfold on and start kissing her. Really kiss her.
When you sense she’s really turned on get her clothes off and handcuff her. Lay her down on her back and put the audio piece on for her. Have a playlist of romantic music ready and play it.
Run the feather up and down her body and exogenous zones. Kiss her entire body slowly and don’t go straight for the nips and clit. Do her neck, ears, shoulders, belly (if she’s comfortable, some are not) and inner thighs. THEN go for her nips and clit. Give her head and make her come. What happens after that is up to you.
At any point if she withdraws her consent STOP and tell her you want her to be comfortable and only proceed if she’s ok. Do not force anything. But honestly, few of you have to worry. As long as you’ve had sex with her already, chances are she’ll be very sporting. She’ll never forget this night.
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